You married young, had children then you had time to spend together, then they got older so you enjoyed a social life together. The children left home to start their own lives and that’s when you both realised you have nothing in common anymore.
Did you know there are more mature people on the dating scene than young ones now so please don’t feel bad about mature dating. Your older and wiser, you know the type of open questions to ask so you get to know as much as you can from the person before you even meet them. I am in my 50’s and find it all a bit of fun, I am not the nervous 20-year-old that first tried out the dating sites.
There are sites to match your age so that makes it easier than trawling through inappropriate people. If you answer the questions correctly then they can match you up with the same outlook and education, although it’s a bit hard to remember what you did at school when you’re in your later years and does it really matter as I think life experiences make a person grow and change, hopefully for the better.
To be Single and Mature at this time you have got the pick of the bunch as so many people are now wanting to find someone to settle down with and eventually enjoy their retirement and travel with that special person. I think people know what sort of person they are looking for as age gives you that advantage. If they can make you laugh then your half way there as laughing is supposed to keep you young!
There is a lot going for us older client’s as we mature like a fine red wine, a bit of grey in a man is supposed to make him look distinguished. Not sure about the grey in a woman as all we want to do is cover it up but that’s fine, you only need one day a month to keep you looking ravishing.
I have found that people are very honest when older on these sites and are not afraid to talk about anything also being open and honest are two of the most important requirements I think. I always pop those in my profile and then tell them when we start chatting as you do find that some do not read the information that you spent hours pouring over trying to get right they just look at your picture and if they fancy you they will then message you straight away. I tend to ask them something and when they do not know the answer then I say to them, you have not read any of my profile they normally come back with something like, I saw your eyes and just wanted to talk or I fell in love with your beauty! Cut the
crap sorry rubbish, now tell me something interesting about yourself.
What are you doing tomorrow?