OUR OWN TIME

/home/wpcom/public_html/wp-content/blogs.dir/e72/45767120/files/2014/12/img_0321.pngHow much time do you spend doing things that you don’t really want to do? When I have a moment like today to sit and think I realise that so much time is wasted doing things we don’t really want to do, talking to people, going places, all things that we could happily not do or say. How do you reach a happy medium of being nice, polite but still being true to yourself. Is it what people expect of us, so we have created this ourself by being like we are from the beginning. So if we change people will then think there is something wrong. I always try to be nice and do what ever is expected but deep down do I resent it? Would a person be selfish to just think of themselves so long as they were not hurting anyone but then you may be just hurting their feelings and that’s just as bad.
Is everybody in a rush all the time? Apart from when I am not well and unable to do a lot I feel like everything is a rush, there is no casual drive or coffee or shopping trip.
Maybe it is me as when I am feeling ok, I try to cram so much in as I have missed things that then I get exhausted from just thinking about everything.
Everything in our lives is centred around time and other people!

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8 Comments

  1. 18th December 2014 / 3:07 pm

    Take the time to chill out and wind down. The madness will still be there, when you’ve recovered a bit. If we’re burnt out, how can be of use to ourselves, let alone others? Take care. x

    • 18th December 2014 / 3:17 pm

      Thank you, i need to learn how to say no. Xxx

  2. 18th December 2014 / 8:20 am

    Yes you do need to think
    of yourself more, Christmas
    is cool but pampering is
    for oneself too you know? πŸ™‚

    Have Nanny Cool Christmas
    my sweet friend and be good πŸ˜‰

    Andro xxx

    • 18th December 2014 / 8:59 am

      Hello you, how are you? I need someone to pamper me and i will be naughty lol might be in my dreams.
      Have a great christmas
      Luv Karen xx

      • 18th December 2014 / 9:05 am

        It won’t be in your dreams
        forever Karen, just enjoy all
        that is coming your way πŸ™‚

        Merry Christmas Dear Friend πŸ˜‰

        Love Andro xxxx

  3. 17th December 2014 / 1:19 pm

    At this time of year it is easy to feel the rush of shopping, gifts, baking, and cooking. It is important to stop, have a cup of tea, and remember why we are doing all these things.

    • 17th December 2014 / 4:55 pm

      I need to think of myself more i have realised today xx

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